.But what Astrid does not realize however is an honest truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who possesses two kids-- may verify: The reality that your connection along with your moms and dads improvements as well as develops as you each grow older, as well as perhaps for the better. "Your globe centers around [your children] when they are actually children [as well as] it is actually a lot job but beautiful," O'Hara mentions. "Eventually, you really overlook that, due to the fact that at that point you can't acquire all of them to accomplish just about anything you want all of them to do, since they start establishing their personal minds, their personal point of views." And also at some point, you wind up in the location O'Hara, whose sons are in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself today, capable to pick up from her kids. "They are actually only such trendy younger people," she claims. "I am actually not their pal, but I love having talks along with them and being familiar with how they consider life.".